Attracting Women - What They Like To See On Guys
I know there are lots of alfa-males on the scene today and when one is looking to compete, the competition, well, may look a little stiff. But the competition isn’t what you should worry about… The problem at hand is YOU understanding what women like, how to act and hold your game good enough to go on that first or second date. Although you can’t buy confidence, you can buy things that make you feel confident. Like a haircut, a good smelling product, or nice shoes.
So here is a list of things that you can buy that will catch the eye of the women you’re with:
1. A nice watch
Nothing will ever say you got your life together more than wearing a watch. Think about it… If you tell someone to meet you at 5 or in 15 minutes and that person doesn’t have a watch on - will you really trust that person? This is a mature statement. Not that you need the most expensive bling but something subtle that will go with your wardrobe and when you tell her “I’ll be there” she’ll believe you. Here is a great starter watch at a great price.
2. A good Scent
A good scent will always be remembered, regardless if you know what it is or not. Smell can drive someone wild. - Think about it; we’re all familiar with the “stripper smell” and that’s a fact. A scent that you wear will always welcome a hug and that’s what you need. When it comes to fragrances I don’t think the more-the-merrier but a staple fragrance that suits you well will never go out of style. For me a great brand is Le Labo. It lasts a long time and this oil will leave your lover memorized.
3. Nice Shoes
Leave your sneakers at home. You should always have a pair of good shoes handy, cleaned and ready-to-wear. Throughout my years of dapping in dating, I realized that girls really focus on shoes more than anything. Why? Because they love shoes and it comes second nature to them. This is a golden opportunity to impress. Not that you need the designer brand shoes, but a modern design, good color and clean is all you need. A good pair of brogues or oxfords will work well with different styles of dressing and will meet the needs for any event. This would be my top pick and go-to shoe:
4. A Good Fitting Blazer
Since the roaring 20’s men have been wearing blazers. As we progress in history, styles are modernizing and evolving but this is a staple that will always be around. Invest in a good fitting blazer. To be honest, even if you buy it off the rack from H&M, take it to a tailor. This is a good hack for shoppers on a budget. It will make a world of difference and a navy blazer should always be ready to go. Spend some time browsing the selections after you spend time calculating your budget. Just remember, you should always be improving your navy blazer quality.
5.Boots
I know some people live in places where they need boots. A good pair of chelsea boots can make a difference in your wardrobe and with the amount of brands starting with this style of boots, you are sure to find some in your budget and one that fits your style. If you’re more of a dapper dresser, I suggest a pair of leather chelsea’s. If you’re more edgier, I suggest a pair in Suede.
BONUS TIP:
Open the car door for her, revolving door and all/any entrances. Make sure you walk on the correct side of the sideway and let her order first.